If you constantly find yourself going in circles, never getting to what want, you need to stop chasing and start attracting. To put it bluntly, you’re trying to live someone else’s truth, not your own. You can put energy towards doing all the same actions and behaviors as someone else, but your outcome will not be the same. Because what is for them, is for them, and what is for you, is for you.
Instead, focus on your truth and your vision, and you’ll see that God will guide the way. Its totally okay to look at others and be inspired or motivated, but use that inspiration to fuel the ways in which you can get to your own outcome. We see others successes, whether that’s in business, relationships, personal growth, etc., and try to mimic their moves; but what are we are chasing here? On the other hand, when you are in tune with what is for you and your “why,” everything will begin to come to you naturally. You’ll find a natural flow that is effortless and feels good.
Don’t compare, coexist; I can be fully myself and you can be fully yourself, with completely different paths and methods, even if we want the same outcome.
Affirm to yourself: I am successful, I am happy, I am loved, I am on the right path, and everything I want is attainable.